Each one of us comes from a family, and each one of us has a family that we today belong to. Growing up in a family, perhaps you sat around the table to eat what might be known as the main meal of the day, “supper”, or some might even call it “dinner”. Let’s say the evening meal, as not to have a family fight.
If you grew up in a family of any size, unlike myself, you will know that two things are true first, you get lots to eat as long as you don’t hesitate in grabbing what you want, and secondly you are expected to not just take the food from the dish, but to pass the dish on. I didn’t grow up in a large family so I don’t really know what thats about.
I remember doing my first pastoral visit to an evening meal with a family in our community. As food was passed around, I would take what I wanted and sit the bowl down, and sure enough someone would ask me to pass the dish they were looking for.
Like others around that table sharing the meal together, they brought something to the table and so did I. Each of us shared what we had brought.
The table we gather around is actually about more than just food, and drinks. It’s about enjoying the company of those who sit around the table with you.
There are a couple of great lessons I think we can learn from the family table, lessons we can apply to our Bethel family.
Every person at the table brings something of significance to the table.
When we sit at the table its not about agreeing on everything. Sometimes it’s just about sharing what we understand, and understanding what is shared.
The one thing each of us brings to the table, is the love of Jesus, and that experience should be shared with everyone, when we gather together.
What are you sharing at the family table? Each week when we gather at Bethel, we are gathering around the table, and you bring something to that table. That’s what it means to be family.